▲ 95 ▼ Inside the deadly instant loan app scam that blackmails with nudes (www.bbc.co.uk) submitted 2 years ago by throws_lemy@lemmy.nz to c/privacyguides@lemmy.one 33 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] Vodik_VDK@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago (3 children) Sounds like we just need a Share Your Nudes Week to help destigmatize a very ordinary part of modern life. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] Lemongrab@lemmy.one 21 points 2 years ago (1 child) While i agree in the idea of destigmatizing sex, consent (or lack there of) is a key part in why this is so traumatic, without even considering the negative and wrongfully directed anger often targeted at the victim by their community. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] nevernevermore@kbin.social 14 points 2 years ago yeah having your bodily autonomy removed for any reason is a traumatic experience. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Thorned_Rose@kbin.social 9 points 2 years ago* I agree. I call myself a closet naturist because I'm all for the human body just being a human body and not ridiculously hyper-sexualised. But I'm also a sexual abuse survivor and that same hyper-sexualisation makes me very wary and anxious around people who are not also naturists. I've been assaulted way too many times WITH clothes on to trust the general population who can't comprehend that a naked body =/= sex and an open invitation. permalink fedilink source parent [–] flicker@kbin.social 1 point 2 years ago Remembering this from Community. "It's Vietnam!" And he laughed. They had no idea what they were in for. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Lemongrab@lemmy.one 21 points 2 years ago (1 child) While i agree in the idea of destigmatizing sex, consent (or lack there of) is a key part in why this is so traumatic, without even considering the negative and wrongfully directed anger often targeted at the victim by their community. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] nevernevermore@kbin.social 14 points 2 years ago yeah having your bodily autonomy removed for any reason is a traumatic experience. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] nevernevermore@kbin.social 14 points 2 years ago yeah having your bodily autonomy removed for any reason is a traumatic experience. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Thorned_Rose@kbin.social 9 points 2 years ago* I agree. I call myself a closet naturist because I'm all for the human body just being a human body and not ridiculously hyper-sexualised. But I'm also a sexual abuse survivor and that same hyper-sexualisation makes me very wary and anxious around people who are not also naturists. I've been assaulted way too many times WITH clothes on to trust the general population who can't comprehend that a naked body =/= sex and an open invitation. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] flicker@kbin.social 1 point 2 years ago Remembering this from Community. "It's Vietnam!" And he laughed. They had no idea what they were in for. permalink fedilink source parent