I'm more into stoicism personally than religious practices although I can appreciate the better aspects of most faiths. Not so much the unquestionable belief aspect.
Have you ever changed or helped someone change? In my experience there's ignorance, they don't really know or see and then they become aware in the same way someone who doesn't want to do those things is aware and they change.
I can dislike the actions someone has made and yet encourage their efforts to not make those actions again.