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[–] 3 points 4 days ago

I think they looked for instructions and were convinced that they already had sorted out everything, and possibly had good reasons to think so. In 2022 (before the husband's death), they learned for the first time that this wasn't the case, and it sounds like they turned in the paperwork immediately afterwards.

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