this + the community is full of the most insipid whiny fuckwits you've ever met.
E:D would be so much more tolerable if there were a "no bullshit" mode -- private servers with votekick + vastly reduced grind, something like that. I know you can invite friends to a clan of sorts, but that only fixes half the problem and unless you, personally, curate every invited person, you might still encounter an asshole that you know through a mutual friend.
I'm okay with the early game being brutal and not holding your hand, I am very much not okay with the experience continuing to be a slog after I'm well out of the Steam refund period. Like, I got to trader Elite and bought a Federal Corvette, and I still found it a fucking slog.
One of the few things E:D is very competent at, is looking extremely pretty, especially in VR; that's about the only real, pure fun I had in the game was flying around and going "wooooaaaaahhhh that's sick" with my Index on my head.