I always had the impression, specially when looking at my own case of autism that curiousity seemed linked to it.

what you all think? Is there any possible relation?

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[–] 2 points 1 day ago (1 child)

Don't forget that allistic people will sometimes compliment you on a trait to make you feel better.

Especially if you seem to take pride in that trait.

It's not a marker of fact.

However. It might also be a reflection of the thing they like most about you. Curiosity is attractive.

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    Not sure I needed correcting but thanks.

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    It was an inaccurate assumption about the situation I was describing.

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    It was a response to what you were saying, but it isn't inaccurate.

    You are the one making assumptions that people are not trying to compliment you, merely commenting on you.

    And let's face it. If any of us were great at reading subtle social cues, we wouldn't be here... So what I suggested was an alternative take on the situation that is less negative.

    I do not believe that everyone that tries to talk to me is in some way being disparaging. That would be an awful way to live.

    Anyway, again, thanks, this has been fun.

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    I'm not why you are so insistent you have some special understanding of a situation you were not privy too. My description did not assign a value of positive or negative to their comments. It appears you inferred meaning and decided it was a teaching moment I guess.

    This has been incredibly frustrating. I did not ask for help.

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