I get wanting to have hope but saying Starmer was the best PM in 14 years is a bar so low its unlimboable. And I'm not sure that it's even true, many of his policies built on the cruelty and inequality of the Tories and he has openly supported a genocide.
So please, please, please do have hope. Just not with the labour party. If you must support a party lend the greens your time and energy and support but government isn't going to save any of us. We need to work in community for ourselves. My personal belief is in anarchy but even supporting and organising your local LGBTQ+ groups is far more impactful than anything government will offer