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[–] 6 points 4 weeks ago (1 child)

Oftentimes doctors do it without a request from the husband at all. Misogyny is intertwined with healthcare.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 weeks ago (1 child)

    White men are often handed pain medicine prescription without asking. Women and people of color often can't get it if they beg.

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  • [–] 3 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (2 children)

    Recently had my IUD replaced. The doctor looked me in the face and told me that they wouldn't be offering pain relief. But I could take some ibuprofen before coming in.

    My father got a standing prescription for Vicodin just for some mild back pain.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 weeks ago

    That is infuriating, especially having heard tales of incorrect insertion and women suffering for weeks before the doctor decided something may be amiss and deciding to correct it.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 weeks ago

    That was my experience, too. It was absolutely brutal. Luckily, I was able to have it removed when I was put under for my bisalp a few years later.

    On the other hand, I recently talked to a (male) gyno about my cycle being totally fucked up. One of the options for management was a Mirena IUD, and he told me that if I decide on that route, they'll bring me into the OR and do it with proper pain management and sedation.

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