The internet actually deleted most "real people having real sex" years ago. You just didn't notice. There is a reason I specified "commercial" in my comment.
If you actually show modern, or worse, "post-modern" porn to a non-porn-brained person, he will more likely to be put off by it, than attracted to it.
An imperfect analogy can be made to a similar(ish) direction the so called "music industry" went through. Although, the divergence there is less stark, the direction is less universally off-putting, and no erasure happened to good old (and some new) stuff. And the "real" angle is not fully there, auto-tune and co. aside. But it should be noted that very recently (in the last 3 years), "AI" has already been helping automating the generation of the already boringly derivative content, with both tunes and lyrics. You just didn't notice because all the anger is strategically directed at the full content generation startups (including instrument play and vocals).