Let’s see. Went with dbzer0 because I liked some things about them. Some things are weird but not disagreeable or offensive. I like how they’re mostly for freedom of speech and I feel they’re mostly like minded individuals. Just felt it was a good fit. Maybe not for everyone though.
I use Mlem on my phone and I just use the browser (Safari) on my computer. I’m a longtime Firefox user, but Firefox and Lemmy don’t get along well. Always runs like shit here; Safari doesn’t and I don’t hate it. It’s not like Edge on a Windows machine, which I couldn’t do.
I browse /all, sub to comms that interest me and block ones I never wanna see. Like it’s not personal, I browse /all to see what’s there but some stuff I just don’t wanna see. So I don’t.
Lastly, there’s my personal disengage policy. Not to be confused with dbzer0’s. Basically I don’t engage with vitriol, and if a conversation heads that way, depending on my mood, I’ll try to turn it back towards civility, or simply ignore. No block, no downvote, I just walk away and let them have the last word.