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[–] gurty@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (2 children) No, people who call kids ‘disease vectors’ shouldn’t have kids, silly billy. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 3 points 3 months ago (1 child) Your original reply implied that people who hold such a belief somehow end up not making babies because of that belief. I continue to suggest the onus is on people with that belief to prevent them while knowing that it’s quite likely they’re going to fuck, and frankly, your opinion about their reproductive rights and bodily autonomy is irrelevant. I mean, what’s your proposal, comb people’s post histories for comments like “disease vectors” and take their kids away when condoms fail or a pill is missed, or do we just sterilize/castrate them beforehand? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (2 children) I said shouldn’t , not don’t. I think you need to work on your comprehension. I don’t know why this has set you off so much, but I sincerely hope you get the help you need. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 3 points 3 months ago (1 child) it’s an issue that resolves itself. Explain how people not wanting kids “resolves itself”. Do you think they don’t have sex? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world -1 points 3 months ago (2 children) People who dislike kids and don’t want kids are less likely to have kids. I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (2 children) I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? So what if there was? Adding a backhanded jab that relies on treating special needs people like they’re less than capable of handling themselves and need someone else to do their talking as an insult is a real shitbag comment. If you want to resort to name calling don’t use the idea of special needs as making someone else lesser. It’s also not an “issue”, as if avoiding parenthood is somehow a deviation from the norm or amoral choice. If OPs comment struck a nerve, call them out on the part of the comment that struck the nerve- their description of kids as disgusting. There’s no issue in not having kids and the choice to not make them is resolved when the people who don’t want them take personal responsibility and precautions to prevent it from happening. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Ugh@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? So what if there was? Adding a backhanded jab that relies on treating special needs people like they’re less than capable of handling themselves and need someone else to do their talking as an insult is a real shitbag comment. If you want to resort to name calling don’t use the idea of special needs as making someone else lesser. I love you for this. Thank you for calling that shit out. <3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Hi, people needing assistance online isn’t a negative or derogatory and I actually have a family member who needs help with forms and online interaction. Thinking its a negative is gross and abelist, please check yourself. permalink fedilink source parent [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) Why is needing extra assistance classed as a backhand jab to you? I have a family member who has someone help with forms and phonecalls and I have personally had to interject with their online activity, its more common than you think. Why do you class that as derogatory? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Fuck off with the “I know someone so my comment isn’t bigoted” bullshit. That’s the oldest save face in the book, and it’s even more pathetic when you’re anonymously online because it’s unverifiable. But by all means, explain how your comment wasn’t an attempt to take a jab at my intellect by implying I was a member of vulnerable minority. Seriously though, don’t reply with whatever you think will “win”. There’s zero doubt that you wrote that as an insult in this conversation, we’re clearly bickering and you didn’t suddenly make a U-Turn and use your supposed loved one’s needs as genuine concern, you used it to undercut by implying my response is unintelligent and needs someone smarter to write it for me. You’re smart enough to know “retard” is verboten but savvy enough with words to make the same implication. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) You were bickering on your own. Feel free to go through my replies to you and tell me where I was bickering with you. Your reaction to my genuine personal experience tells me all I need to know about you. I hope you find peace. Take care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) If you truly have someone in your life like that but then use your knowledge of their needs to craft better insults you’re worse than a liar trying to save face. It’s bad enough when people treat disability like it’s an insult out of ignorance. You’re not ignorant, you have someone you supposedly love and know what their life is like but choose to take that path anyway. Shame on you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m not reading that. I wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Well then you’ve either chosen ignorance or are a liar and have run out of excuses and redirects. If you want a safe space where people won’t call you out on your put downs at the expense of vulnerable populations, I’d suggest Facebook or Twitter. They’re filled with MAGAts, Zionists, and Christofascists who turn being held accountable into a persecution complex. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Again, not reading but I genuinely wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent [–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) People who don't want kids, won't have kids, and is a "problem that resolves itself"? Like because they don't have kids they won't "pass it down"? It sounds like the same reasoning as "People being gay is a problem that resolves itself cuz they don't have sex." As if being gay is something that can only be "passed down". Probably why the other person is getting upset, not sure if this is what you were trying to say or not. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 1 point 3 months ago Because they don’t want kids, genuinely dislike kids, wouldn’t be great with the kids, and as a result likely won’t have kids… so they won’t ever have to endure the horrors they are describing. I have no idea what is being misinterpreted. I’ve shared this comment chain around and people are sure that the person commenting is mentally ill. permalink fedilink source parent [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) $20 days they have at least one kid they didn’t want to / weren’t planning on having. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’ll take your $20. Snipped at 23 because, as I’ve been pointing out, the responsibility of preventing unwanted children is on the potential parent who’s disinterest in reproducing is neither a disinterest in sex nor somehow prevents sex from occurring. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) $20 to gurty permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Gurty resorted to insults that required disparaging special needs and you won’t honor a bet because you lost. You two deserve one another. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Show me the disparaging comment permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) 👆it’s all in the comments right above this. They even came back when called out on it and did the old “I know someone special needs so it’s not bigoted” defense and are accusing others who called them on it of being abelists. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago I’m out. permalink fedilink source parent [–] RecursiveParadox@piefed.social 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Gotta back him up on this point, and I think every parent will agree - from the time they are toddlers until late in high school you WILL catch every disease all the other kids at school had that week. Among most parents it's a running joke. Mine are grown now but still living at home and I STILL catch shit from them going around their unis. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago It is true - two colds in 3 months here. It is what happens when you get 30 kids into a confined space, immediate spread. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 3 points 3 months ago (1 child) Your original reply implied that people who hold such a belief somehow end up not making babies because of that belief. I continue to suggest the onus is on people with that belief to prevent them while knowing that it’s quite likely they’re going to fuck, and frankly, your opinion about their reproductive rights and bodily autonomy is irrelevant. I mean, what’s your proposal, comb people’s post histories for comments like “disease vectors” and take their kids away when condoms fail or a pill is missed, or do we just sterilize/castrate them beforehand? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (2 children) I said shouldn’t , not don’t. I think you need to work on your comprehension. I don’t know why this has set you off so much, but I sincerely hope you get the help you need. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 3 points 3 months ago (1 child) it’s an issue that resolves itself. Explain how people not wanting kids “resolves itself”. Do you think they don’t have sex? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world -1 points 3 months ago (2 children) People who dislike kids and don’t want kids are less likely to have kids. I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (2 children) I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? So what if there was? Adding a backhanded jab that relies on treating special needs people like they’re less than capable of handling themselves and need someone else to do their talking as an insult is a real shitbag comment. If you want to resort to name calling don’t use the idea of special needs as making someone else lesser. It’s also not an “issue”, as if avoiding parenthood is somehow a deviation from the norm or amoral choice. If OPs comment struck a nerve, call them out on the part of the comment that struck the nerve- their description of kids as disgusting. There’s no issue in not having kids and the choice to not make them is resolved when the people who don’t want them take personal responsibility and precautions to prevent it from happening. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Ugh@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? So what if there was? Adding a backhanded jab that relies on treating special needs people like they’re less than capable of handling themselves and need someone else to do their talking as an insult is a real shitbag comment. If you want to resort to name calling don’t use the idea of special needs as making someone else lesser. I love you for this. Thank you for calling that shit out. <3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Hi, people needing assistance online isn’t a negative or derogatory and I actually have a family member who needs help with forms and online interaction. Thinking its a negative is gross and abelist, please check yourself. permalink fedilink source parent [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) Why is needing extra assistance classed as a backhand jab to you? I have a family member who has someone help with forms and phonecalls and I have personally had to interject with their online activity, its more common than you think. Why do you class that as derogatory? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Fuck off with the “I know someone so my comment isn’t bigoted” bullshit. That’s the oldest save face in the book, and it’s even more pathetic when you’re anonymously online because it’s unverifiable. But by all means, explain how your comment wasn’t an attempt to take a jab at my intellect by implying I was a member of vulnerable minority. Seriously though, don’t reply with whatever you think will “win”. There’s zero doubt that you wrote that as an insult in this conversation, we’re clearly bickering and you didn’t suddenly make a U-Turn and use your supposed loved one’s needs as genuine concern, you used it to undercut by implying my response is unintelligent and needs someone smarter to write it for me. You’re smart enough to know “retard” is verboten but savvy enough with words to make the same implication. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) You were bickering on your own. Feel free to go through my replies to you and tell me where I was bickering with you. Your reaction to my genuine personal experience tells me all I need to know about you. I hope you find peace. Take care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) If you truly have someone in your life like that but then use your knowledge of their needs to craft better insults you’re worse than a liar trying to save face. It’s bad enough when people treat disability like it’s an insult out of ignorance. You’re not ignorant, you have someone you supposedly love and know what their life is like but choose to take that path anyway. Shame on you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m not reading that. I wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Well then you’ve either chosen ignorance or are a liar and have run out of excuses and redirects. If you want a safe space where people won’t call you out on your put downs at the expense of vulnerable populations, I’d suggest Facebook or Twitter. They’re filled with MAGAts, Zionists, and Christofascists who turn being held accountable into a persecution complex. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Again, not reading but I genuinely wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent [–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) People who don't want kids, won't have kids, and is a "problem that resolves itself"? Like because they don't have kids they won't "pass it down"? It sounds like the same reasoning as "People being gay is a problem that resolves itself cuz they don't have sex." As if being gay is something that can only be "passed down". Probably why the other person is getting upset, not sure if this is what you were trying to say or not. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 1 point 3 months ago Because they don’t want kids, genuinely dislike kids, wouldn’t be great with the kids, and as a result likely won’t have kids… so they won’t ever have to endure the horrors they are describing. I have no idea what is being misinterpreted. I’ve shared this comment chain around and people are sure that the person commenting is mentally ill. permalink fedilink source parent [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) $20 days they have at least one kid they didn’t want to / weren’t planning on having. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’ll take your $20. Snipped at 23 because, as I’ve been pointing out, the responsibility of preventing unwanted children is on the potential parent who’s disinterest in reproducing is neither a disinterest in sex nor somehow prevents sex from occurring. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) $20 to gurty permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Gurty resorted to insults that required disparaging special needs and you won’t honor a bet because you lost. You two deserve one another. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Show me the disparaging comment permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) 👆it’s all in the comments right above this. They even came back when called out on it and did the old “I know someone special needs so it’s not bigoted” defense and are accusing others who called them on it of being abelists. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago I’m out. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] gurty@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (2 children) I said shouldn’t , not don’t. I think you need to work on your comprehension. I don’t know why this has set you off so much, but I sincerely hope you get the help you need. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 3 points 3 months ago (1 child) it’s an issue that resolves itself. Explain how people not wanting kids “resolves itself”. Do you think they don’t have sex? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world -1 points 3 months ago (2 children) People who dislike kids and don’t want kids are less likely to have kids. I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (2 children) I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? So what if there was? Adding a backhanded jab that relies on treating special needs people like they’re less than capable of handling themselves and need someone else to do their talking as an insult is a real shitbag comment. If you want to resort to name calling don’t use the idea of special needs as making someone else lesser. It’s also not an “issue”, as if avoiding parenthood is somehow a deviation from the norm or amoral choice. If OPs comment struck a nerve, call them out on the part of the comment that struck the nerve- their description of kids as disgusting. There’s no issue in not having kids and the choice to not make them is resolved when the people who don’t want them take personal responsibility and precautions to prevent it from happening. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Ugh@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? So what if there was? Adding a backhanded jab that relies on treating special needs people like they’re less than capable of handling themselves and need someone else to do their talking as an insult is a real shitbag comment. If you want to resort to name calling don’t use the idea of special needs as making someone else lesser. I love you for this. Thank you for calling that shit out. <3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Hi, people needing assistance online isn’t a negative or derogatory and I actually have a family member who needs help with forms and online interaction. Thinking its a negative is gross and abelist, please check yourself. permalink fedilink source parent [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) Why is needing extra assistance classed as a backhand jab to you? I have a family member who has someone help with forms and phonecalls and I have personally had to interject with their online activity, its more common than you think. Why do you class that as derogatory? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Fuck off with the “I know someone so my comment isn’t bigoted” bullshit. That’s the oldest save face in the book, and it’s even more pathetic when you’re anonymously online because it’s unverifiable. But by all means, explain how your comment wasn’t an attempt to take a jab at my intellect by implying I was a member of vulnerable minority. Seriously though, don’t reply with whatever you think will “win”. There’s zero doubt that you wrote that as an insult in this conversation, we’re clearly bickering and you didn’t suddenly make a U-Turn and use your supposed loved one’s needs as genuine concern, you used it to undercut by implying my response is unintelligent and needs someone smarter to write it for me. You’re smart enough to know “retard” is verboten but savvy enough with words to make the same implication. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) You were bickering on your own. Feel free to go through my replies to you and tell me where I was bickering with you. Your reaction to my genuine personal experience tells me all I need to know about you. I hope you find peace. Take care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) If you truly have someone in your life like that but then use your knowledge of their needs to craft better insults you’re worse than a liar trying to save face. It’s bad enough when people treat disability like it’s an insult out of ignorance. You’re not ignorant, you have someone you supposedly love and know what their life is like but choose to take that path anyway. Shame on you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m not reading that. I wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Well then you’ve either chosen ignorance or are a liar and have run out of excuses and redirects. If you want a safe space where people won’t call you out on your put downs at the expense of vulnerable populations, I’d suggest Facebook or Twitter. They’re filled with MAGAts, Zionists, and Christofascists who turn being held accountable into a persecution complex. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Again, not reading but I genuinely wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent [–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) People who don't want kids, won't have kids, and is a "problem that resolves itself"? Like because they don't have kids they won't "pass it down"? It sounds like the same reasoning as "People being gay is a problem that resolves itself cuz they don't have sex." As if being gay is something that can only be "passed down". Probably why the other person is getting upset, not sure if this is what you were trying to say or not. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 1 point 3 months ago Because they don’t want kids, genuinely dislike kids, wouldn’t be great with the kids, and as a result likely won’t have kids… so they won’t ever have to endure the horrors they are describing. I have no idea what is being misinterpreted. I’ve shared this comment chain around and people are sure that the person commenting is mentally ill. permalink fedilink source parent [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) $20 days they have at least one kid they didn’t want to / weren’t planning on having. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’ll take your $20. Snipped at 23 because, as I’ve been pointing out, the responsibility of preventing unwanted children is on the potential parent who’s disinterest in reproducing is neither a disinterest in sex nor somehow prevents sex from occurring. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) $20 to gurty permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Gurty resorted to insults that required disparaging special needs and you won’t honor a bet because you lost. You two deserve one another. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Show me the disparaging comment permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) 👆it’s all in the comments right above this. They even came back when called out on it and did the old “I know someone special needs so it’s not bigoted” defense and are accusing others who called them on it of being abelists. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago I’m out. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 3 points 3 months ago (1 child) it’s an issue that resolves itself. Explain how people not wanting kids “resolves itself”. Do you think they don’t have sex? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world -1 points 3 months ago (2 children) People who dislike kids and don’t want kids are less likely to have kids. I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (2 children) I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? So what if there was? Adding a backhanded jab that relies on treating special needs people like they’re less than capable of handling themselves and need someone else to do their talking as an insult is a real shitbag comment. If you want to resort to name calling don’t use the idea of special needs as making someone else lesser. It’s also not an “issue”, as if avoiding parenthood is somehow a deviation from the norm or amoral choice. If OPs comment struck a nerve, call them out on the part of the comment that struck the nerve- their description of kids as disgusting. There’s no issue in not having kids and the choice to not make them is resolved when the people who don’t want them take personal responsibility and precautions to prevent it from happening. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Ugh@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? So what if there was? Adding a backhanded jab that relies on treating special needs people like they’re less than capable of handling themselves and need someone else to do their talking as an insult is a real shitbag comment. If you want to resort to name calling don’t use the idea of special needs as making someone else lesser. I love you for this. Thank you for calling that shit out. <3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Hi, people needing assistance online isn’t a negative or derogatory and I actually have a family member who needs help with forms and online interaction. Thinking its a negative is gross and abelist, please check yourself. permalink fedilink source parent [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) Why is needing extra assistance classed as a backhand jab to you? I have a family member who has someone help with forms and phonecalls and I have personally had to interject with their online activity, its more common than you think. Why do you class that as derogatory? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Fuck off with the “I know someone so my comment isn’t bigoted” bullshit. That’s the oldest save face in the book, and it’s even more pathetic when you’re anonymously online because it’s unverifiable. But by all means, explain how your comment wasn’t an attempt to take a jab at my intellect by implying I was a member of vulnerable minority. Seriously though, don’t reply with whatever you think will “win”. There’s zero doubt that you wrote that as an insult in this conversation, we’re clearly bickering and you didn’t suddenly make a U-Turn and use your supposed loved one’s needs as genuine concern, you used it to undercut by implying my response is unintelligent and needs someone smarter to write it for me. You’re smart enough to know “retard” is verboten but savvy enough with words to make the same implication. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) You were bickering on your own. Feel free to go through my replies to you and tell me where I was bickering with you. Your reaction to my genuine personal experience tells me all I need to know about you. I hope you find peace. Take care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) If you truly have someone in your life like that but then use your knowledge of their needs to craft better insults you’re worse than a liar trying to save face. It’s bad enough when people treat disability like it’s an insult out of ignorance. You’re not ignorant, you have someone you supposedly love and know what their life is like but choose to take that path anyway. Shame on you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m not reading that. I wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Well then you’ve either chosen ignorance or are a liar and have run out of excuses and redirects. If you want a safe space where people won’t call you out on your put downs at the expense of vulnerable populations, I’d suggest Facebook or Twitter. They’re filled with MAGAts, Zionists, and Christofascists who turn being held accountable into a persecution complex. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Again, not reading but I genuinely wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent [–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) People who don't want kids, won't have kids, and is a "problem that resolves itself"? Like because they don't have kids they won't "pass it down"? It sounds like the same reasoning as "People being gay is a problem that resolves itself cuz they don't have sex." As if being gay is something that can only be "passed down". Probably why the other person is getting upset, not sure if this is what you were trying to say or not. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 1 point 3 months ago Because they don’t want kids, genuinely dislike kids, wouldn’t be great with the kids, and as a result likely won’t have kids… so they won’t ever have to endure the horrors they are describing. I have no idea what is being misinterpreted. I’ve shared this comment chain around and people are sure that the person commenting is mentally ill. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] gurty@lemmy.world -1 points 3 months ago (2 children) People who dislike kids and don’t want kids are less likely to have kids. I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (2 children) I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? So what if there was? Adding a backhanded jab that relies on treating special needs people like they’re less than capable of handling themselves and need someone else to do their talking as an insult is a real shitbag comment. If you want to resort to name calling don’t use the idea of special needs as making someone else lesser. It’s also not an “issue”, as if avoiding parenthood is somehow a deviation from the norm or amoral choice. If OPs comment struck a nerve, call them out on the part of the comment that struck the nerve- their description of kids as disgusting. There’s no issue in not having kids and the choice to not make them is resolved when the people who don’t want them take personal responsibility and precautions to prevent it from happening. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Ugh@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? So what if there was? Adding a backhanded jab that relies on treating special needs people like they’re less than capable of handling themselves and need someone else to do their talking as an insult is a real shitbag comment. If you want to resort to name calling don’t use the idea of special needs as making someone else lesser. I love you for this. Thank you for calling that shit out. <3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Hi, people needing assistance online isn’t a negative or derogatory and I actually have a family member who needs help with forms and online interaction. Thinking its a negative is gross and abelist, please check yourself. permalink fedilink source parent [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) Why is needing extra assistance classed as a backhand jab to you? I have a family member who has someone help with forms and phonecalls and I have personally had to interject with their online activity, its more common than you think. Why do you class that as derogatory? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Fuck off with the “I know someone so my comment isn’t bigoted” bullshit. That’s the oldest save face in the book, and it’s even more pathetic when you’re anonymously online because it’s unverifiable. But by all means, explain how your comment wasn’t an attempt to take a jab at my intellect by implying I was a member of vulnerable minority. Seriously though, don’t reply with whatever you think will “win”. There’s zero doubt that you wrote that as an insult in this conversation, we’re clearly bickering and you didn’t suddenly make a U-Turn and use your supposed loved one’s needs as genuine concern, you used it to undercut by implying my response is unintelligent and needs someone smarter to write it for me. You’re smart enough to know “retard” is verboten but savvy enough with words to make the same implication. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) You were bickering on your own. Feel free to go through my replies to you and tell me where I was bickering with you. Your reaction to my genuine personal experience tells me all I need to know about you. I hope you find peace. Take care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) If you truly have someone in your life like that but then use your knowledge of their needs to craft better insults you’re worse than a liar trying to save face. It’s bad enough when people treat disability like it’s an insult out of ignorance. You’re not ignorant, you have someone you supposedly love and know what their life is like but choose to take that path anyway. Shame on you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m not reading that. I wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Well then you’ve either chosen ignorance or are a liar and have run out of excuses and redirects. If you want a safe space where people won’t call you out on your put downs at the expense of vulnerable populations, I’d suggest Facebook or Twitter. They’re filled with MAGAts, Zionists, and Christofascists who turn being held accountable into a persecution complex. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Again, not reading but I genuinely wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent [–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) People who don't want kids, won't have kids, and is a "problem that resolves itself"? Like because they don't have kids they won't "pass it down"? It sounds like the same reasoning as "People being gay is a problem that resolves itself cuz they don't have sex." As if being gay is something that can only be "passed down". Probably why the other person is getting upset, not sure if this is what you were trying to say or not. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 1 point 3 months ago Because they don’t want kids, genuinely dislike kids, wouldn’t be great with the kids, and as a result likely won’t have kids… so they won’t ever have to endure the horrors they are describing. I have no idea what is being misinterpreted. I’ve shared this comment chain around and people are sure that the person commenting is mentally ill. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (2 children) I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? So what if there was? Adding a backhanded jab that relies on treating special needs people like they’re less than capable of handling themselves and need someone else to do their talking as an insult is a real shitbag comment. If you want to resort to name calling don’t use the idea of special needs as making someone else lesser. It’s also not an “issue”, as if avoiding parenthood is somehow a deviation from the norm or amoral choice. If OPs comment struck a nerve, call them out on the part of the comment that struck the nerve- their description of kids as disgusting. There’s no issue in not having kids and the choice to not make them is resolved when the people who don’t want them take personal responsibility and precautions to prevent it from happening. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Ugh@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? So what if there was? Adding a backhanded jab that relies on treating special needs people like they’re less than capable of handling themselves and need someone else to do their talking as an insult is a real shitbag comment. If you want to resort to name calling don’t use the idea of special needs as making someone else lesser. I love you for this. Thank you for calling that shit out. <3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Hi, people needing assistance online isn’t a negative or derogatory and I actually have a family member who needs help with forms and online interaction. Thinking its a negative is gross and abelist, please check yourself. permalink fedilink source parent [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) Why is needing extra assistance classed as a backhand jab to you? I have a family member who has someone help with forms and phonecalls and I have personally had to interject with their online activity, its more common than you think. Why do you class that as derogatory? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Fuck off with the “I know someone so my comment isn’t bigoted” bullshit. That’s the oldest save face in the book, and it’s even more pathetic when you’re anonymously online because it’s unverifiable. But by all means, explain how your comment wasn’t an attempt to take a jab at my intellect by implying I was a member of vulnerable minority. Seriously though, don’t reply with whatever you think will “win”. There’s zero doubt that you wrote that as an insult in this conversation, we’re clearly bickering and you didn’t suddenly make a U-Turn and use your supposed loved one’s needs as genuine concern, you used it to undercut by implying my response is unintelligent and needs someone smarter to write it for me. You’re smart enough to know “retard” is verboten but savvy enough with words to make the same implication. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) You were bickering on your own. Feel free to go through my replies to you and tell me where I was bickering with you. Your reaction to my genuine personal experience tells me all I need to know about you. I hope you find peace. Take care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) If you truly have someone in your life like that but then use your knowledge of their needs to craft better insults you’re worse than a liar trying to save face. It’s bad enough when people treat disability like it’s an insult out of ignorance. You’re not ignorant, you have someone you supposedly love and know what their life is like but choose to take that path anyway. Shame on you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m not reading that. I wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Well then you’ve either chosen ignorance or are a liar and have run out of excuses and redirects. If you want a safe space where people won’t call you out on your put downs at the expense of vulnerable populations, I’d suggest Facebook or Twitter. They’re filled with MAGAts, Zionists, and Christofascists who turn being held accountable into a persecution complex. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Again, not reading but I genuinely wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Ugh@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m sorry but is there someone around you that usually helps you when you are talking to people? So what if there was? Adding a backhanded jab that relies on treating special needs people like they’re less than capable of handling themselves and need someone else to do their talking as an insult is a real shitbag comment. If you want to resort to name calling don’t use the idea of special needs as making someone else lesser. I love you for this. Thank you for calling that shit out. <3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Hi, people needing assistance online isn’t a negative or derogatory and I actually have a family member who needs help with forms and online interaction. Thinking its a negative is gross and abelist, please check yourself. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Hi, people needing assistance online isn’t a negative or derogatory and I actually have a family member who needs help with forms and online interaction. Thinking its a negative is gross and abelist, please check yourself. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) Why is needing extra assistance classed as a backhand jab to you? I have a family member who has someone help with forms and phonecalls and I have personally had to interject with their online activity, its more common than you think. Why do you class that as derogatory? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Fuck off with the “I know someone so my comment isn’t bigoted” bullshit. That’s the oldest save face in the book, and it’s even more pathetic when you’re anonymously online because it’s unverifiable. But by all means, explain how your comment wasn’t an attempt to take a jab at my intellect by implying I was a member of vulnerable minority. Seriously though, don’t reply with whatever you think will “win”. There’s zero doubt that you wrote that as an insult in this conversation, we’re clearly bickering and you didn’t suddenly make a U-Turn and use your supposed loved one’s needs as genuine concern, you used it to undercut by implying my response is unintelligent and needs someone smarter to write it for me. You’re smart enough to know “retard” is verboten but savvy enough with words to make the same implication. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) You were bickering on your own. Feel free to go through my replies to you and tell me where I was bickering with you. Your reaction to my genuine personal experience tells me all I need to know about you. I hope you find peace. Take care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) If you truly have someone in your life like that but then use your knowledge of their needs to craft better insults you’re worse than a liar trying to save face. It’s bad enough when people treat disability like it’s an insult out of ignorance. You’re not ignorant, you have someone you supposedly love and know what their life is like but choose to take that path anyway. Shame on you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m not reading that. I wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Well then you’ve either chosen ignorance or are a liar and have run out of excuses and redirects. If you want a safe space where people won’t call you out on your put downs at the expense of vulnerable populations, I’d suggest Facebook or Twitter. They’re filled with MAGAts, Zionists, and Christofascists who turn being held accountable into a persecution complex. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Again, not reading but I genuinely wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Fuck off with the “I know someone so my comment isn’t bigoted” bullshit. That’s the oldest save face in the book, and it’s even more pathetic when you’re anonymously online because it’s unverifiable. But by all means, explain how your comment wasn’t an attempt to take a jab at my intellect by implying I was a member of vulnerable minority. Seriously though, don’t reply with whatever you think will “win”. There’s zero doubt that you wrote that as an insult in this conversation, we’re clearly bickering and you didn’t suddenly make a U-Turn and use your supposed loved one’s needs as genuine concern, you used it to undercut by implying my response is unintelligent and needs someone smarter to write it for me. You’re smart enough to know “retard” is verboten but savvy enough with words to make the same implication. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) You were bickering on your own. Feel free to go through my replies to you and tell me where I was bickering with you. Your reaction to my genuine personal experience tells me all I need to know about you. I hope you find peace. Take care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) If you truly have someone in your life like that but then use your knowledge of their needs to craft better insults you’re worse than a liar trying to save face. It’s bad enough when people treat disability like it’s an insult out of ignorance. You’re not ignorant, you have someone you supposedly love and know what their life is like but choose to take that path anyway. Shame on you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m not reading that. I wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Well then you’ve either chosen ignorance or are a liar and have run out of excuses and redirects. If you want a safe space where people won’t call you out on your put downs at the expense of vulnerable populations, I’d suggest Facebook or Twitter. They’re filled with MAGAts, Zionists, and Christofascists who turn being held accountable into a persecution complex. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Again, not reading but I genuinely wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) You were bickering on your own. Feel free to go through my replies to you and tell me where I was bickering with you. Your reaction to my genuine personal experience tells me all I need to know about you. I hope you find peace. Take care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) If you truly have someone in your life like that but then use your knowledge of their needs to craft better insults you’re worse than a liar trying to save face. It’s bad enough when people treat disability like it’s an insult out of ignorance. You’re not ignorant, you have someone you supposedly love and know what their life is like but choose to take that path anyway. Shame on you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m not reading that. I wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Well then you’ve either chosen ignorance or are a liar and have run out of excuses and redirects. If you want a safe space where people won’t call you out on your put downs at the expense of vulnerable populations, I’d suggest Facebook or Twitter. They’re filled with MAGAts, Zionists, and Christofascists who turn being held accountable into a persecution complex. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Again, not reading but I genuinely wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) If you truly have someone in your life like that but then use your knowledge of their needs to craft better insults you’re worse than a liar trying to save face. It’s bad enough when people treat disability like it’s an insult out of ignorance. You’re not ignorant, you have someone you supposedly love and know what their life is like but choose to take that path anyway. Shame on you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m not reading that. I wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Well then you’ve either chosen ignorance or are a liar and have run out of excuses and redirects. If you want a safe space where people won’t call you out on your put downs at the expense of vulnerable populations, I’d suggest Facebook or Twitter. They’re filled with MAGAts, Zionists, and Christofascists who turn being held accountable into a persecution complex. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Again, not reading but I genuinely wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’m not reading that. I wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Well then you’ve either chosen ignorance or are a liar and have run out of excuses and redirects. If you want a safe space where people won’t call you out on your put downs at the expense of vulnerable populations, I’d suggest Facebook or Twitter. They’re filled with MAGAts, Zionists, and Christofascists who turn being held accountable into a persecution complex. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Again, not reading but I genuinely wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Well then you’ve either chosen ignorance or are a liar and have run out of excuses and redirects. If you want a safe space where people won’t call you out on your put downs at the expense of vulnerable populations, I’d suggest Facebook or Twitter. They’re filled with MAGAts, Zionists, and Christofascists who turn being held accountable into a persecution complex. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Again, not reading but I genuinely wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] gurty@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago Again, not reading but I genuinely wish you well. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) People who don't want kids, won't have kids, and is a "problem that resolves itself"? Like because they don't have kids they won't "pass it down"? It sounds like the same reasoning as "People being gay is a problem that resolves itself cuz they don't have sex." As if being gay is something that can only be "passed down". Probably why the other person is getting upset, not sure if this is what you were trying to say or not. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 1 point 3 months ago Because they don’t want kids, genuinely dislike kids, wouldn’t be great with the kids, and as a result likely won’t have kids… so they won’t ever have to endure the horrors they are describing. I have no idea what is being misinterpreted. I’ve shared this comment chain around and people are sure that the person commenting is mentally ill. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] gurty@lemmy.world 1 point 3 months ago Because they don’t want kids, genuinely dislike kids, wouldn’t be great with the kids, and as a result likely won’t have kids… so they won’t ever have to endure the horrors they are describing. I have no idea what is being misinterpreted. I’ve shared this comment chain around and people are sure that the person commenting is mentally ill. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) $20 days they have at least one kid they didn’t want to / weren’t planning on having. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’ll take your $20. Snipped at 23 because, as I’ve been pointing out, the responsibility of preventing unwanted children is on the potential parent who’s disinterest in reproducing is neither a disinterest in sex nor somehow prevents sex from occurring. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) $20 to gurty permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Gurty resorted to insults that required disparaging special needs and you won’t honor a bet because you lost. You two deserve one another. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Show me the disparaging comment permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) 👆it’s all in the comments right above this. They even came back when called out on it and did the old “I know someone special needs so it’s not bigoted” defense and are accusing others who called them on it of being abelists. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago I’m out. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) I’ll take your $20. Snipped at 23 because, as I’ve been pointing out, the responsibility of preventing unwanted children is on the potential parent who’s disinterest in reproducing is neither a disinterest in sex nor somehow prevents sex from occurring. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) $20 to gurty permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Gurty resorted to insults that required disparaging special needs and you won’t honor a bet because you lost. You two deserve one another. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Show me the disparaging comment permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) 👆it’s all in the comments right above this. They even came back when called out on it and did the old “I know someone special needs so it’s not bigoted” defense and are accusing others who called them on it of being abelists. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago I’m out. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) $20 to gurty permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Gurty resorted to insults that required disparaging special needs and you won’t honor a bet because you lost. You two deserve one another. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Show me the disparaging comment permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) 👆it’s all in the comments right above this. They even came back when called out on it and did the old “I know someone special needs so it’s not bigoted” defense and are accusing others who called them on it of being abelists. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago I’m out. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Gurty resorted to insults that required disparaging special needs and you won’t honor a bet because you lost. You two deserve one another. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Show me the disparaging comment permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) 👆it’s all in the comments right above this. They even came back when called out on it and did the old “I know someone special needs so it’s not bigoted” defense and are accusing others who called them on it of being abelists. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago I’m out. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) Show me the disparaging comment permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) 👆it’s all in the comments right above this. They even came back when called out on it and did the old “I know someone special needs so it’s not bigoted” defense and are accusing others who called them on it of being abelists. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago I’m out. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 point 3 months ago (1 child) 👆it’s all in the comments right above this. They even came back when called out on it and did the old “I know someone special needs so it’s not bigoted” defense and are accusing others who called them on it of being abelists. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 3 months ago I’m out. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] RecursiveParadox@piefed.social 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Gotta back him up on this point, and I think every parent will agree - from the time they are toddlers until late in high school you WILL catch every disease all the other kids at school had that week. Among most parents it's a running joke. Mine are grown now but still living at home and I STILL catch shit from them going around their unis. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] gurty@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago It is true - two colds in 3 months here. It is what happens when you get 30 kids into a confined space, immediate spread. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] gurty@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago It is true - two colds in 3 months here. It is what happens when you get 30 kids into a confined space, immediate spread. permalink fedilink source parent