... 'Building Equity' and 'Investment' are basically the same thing, twice.
Also, given the ongoing housing market collapse in most of the US: lol.
If you rented the median apartment for the last 15 years, instead of paying for a median home mortgage, and put the difference, the savings, into say the stock market?
Your investment would be doing better, on average.
Also oops your homeowners insurance went up by 50% in a year, now your escrow is underfunded, turns out you now live in a flood/fire/hurricane zone, yay climate change!
Yes, very much stability and freedom to personalize in your HOA, which has basically a 90% chance of being a completely corrupt embezzlement/fraud scheme.
Oh and don't forget that you have to pay for all maintenance, your insurance will do its damndest to pay for nothing, and maybe your home built in the last 10 years is just a pile of garbage that you didn't get an independent inspector to check out for flaws before you bought it.
... but yeah its not good to pour oil down your drain, thankfully the ability to have some mason jars or something to pour it into is not exclusive to homeowners.