The ol "my life experience is universal" argument I see. I did move, everything I own fits into a backpack and a suitcase. I'm in this tiny ass town because it is where I could get a visa because I'm fleeing the US before they execute my trans ass. If I leave now we're talking flushing literally tens of thousands usd down the drain on the off chance I manage to find another way to get a visa somewhere else.

So as far as dating goes again I'd love to know what the correct way is if not apps, and I'm vetoing "risk my life" options like moving.