Yeah that's a good read. I find most of my dates/partners just want me to fix their money/emotional/esteem problems. But they absolutely have zero interest in solve that for themselves.

I'm just a means to their ending their own bad habits and internal conflicts. I have no interest in being someone's parent like that, so the relationship has no basis to continue for either of us.

Especially as I don't have any of those conflicts in my own life, and I don't see any point in bring them into my life.