▲ 953 ▼ This hits a little too close to home (lemmy.world) submitted 3 months ago by cannedtuna@lemmy.world to c/microblogmemes@lemmy.world 245 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] Rooster326@programming.dev 11 points 3 months ago (1 child) How? Unless it's a mobile home on leased land, or you live somewhere property, and land aren't valued as assets. You can always sell it .. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] night_petal@piefed.social 16 points 3 months ago (2 children) Taxes, maintenance, upkeep, utilities etc. Legally, I can't sell it for some time as that is part of the will. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] wabasso@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 months ago (1 child) Can you take out debt against it to pay for those things? If you’re net negative while it’s in your possession then the math should work out if you can extract some of its future sale price against its current cost. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] night_petal@piefed.social 4 points 3 months ago I am currently looking at options like this, yeah. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (2 children) Sounds like it's a problem with inheritance. Not owning a home. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] night_petal@piefed.social 11 points 3 months ago (1 child) Which is relevant to the meme that was posted. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 months ago (1 child) You said the house was ruining you but that's not true. What's ruining you is the condition of the contract you accepted in order to obtain said house. The meme is about selfish parents pulling the ladder up. Not conditions set on an individual that is subject to them alone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] night_petal@piefed.social 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I never stated that the house is ruining me. I said: I inherited a house, and it is ruining me permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -3 points 3 months ago (1 child) The meme is about pulling up the ladder behind them. You got a ladder installed and they bolted it to your house. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago* (1 child) Keep moving those goal posts for whatever bewildering reason you have. The situation would only be pulling up the ladder if their parents had inherited the house themselves. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 3 months ago (1 child) The situation? Are you talking of your house or the meme? The meme is 100% about ladder pulling. You did not get the ladder pulled from under you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I don’t have a house, and the meme is not ladder pulling unless there’s more information about the parents in that situation. Read this: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/pull_the_ladder_up_behind_oneself permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) (idiomatic) To prevent others from attaining or benefiting from the same advantages, opportunities, or rights as oneself. Bro permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Sorry, I thought reading it once would help; maybe try reading it a few more times. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 months ago permalink fedilink source parent [–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago People buy houses all the time they can't afford. Hidden costs, thinking taxes and insurance won't shoot up, depending on the size might cost and arm and a leg to heat/cool. There's even a term called "house poor" when you buy a house but don't have the money to furnish it so you just have big empty rooms. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] night_petal@piefed.social 16 points 3 months ago (2 children) Taxes, maintenance, upkeep, utilities etc. Legally, I can't sell it for some time as that is part of the will. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] wabasso@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 months ago (1 child) Can you take out debt against it to pay for those things? If you’re net negative while it’s in your possession then the math should work out if you can extract some of its future sale price against its current cost. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] night_petal@piefed.social 4 points 3 months ago I am currently looking at options like this, yeah. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (2 children) Sounds like it's a problem with inheritance. Not owning a home. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] night_petal@piefed.social 11 points 3 months ago (1 child) Which is relevant to the meme that was posted. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 months ago (1 child) You said the house was ruining you but that's not true. What's ruining you is the condition of the contract you accepted in order to obtain said house. The meme is about selfish parents pulling the ladder up. Not conditions set on an individual that is subject to them alone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] night_petal@piefed.social 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I never stated that the house is ruining me. I said: I inherited a house, and it is ruining me permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -3 points 3 months ago (1 child) The meme is about pulling up the ladder behind them. You got a ladder installed and they bolted it to your house. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago* (1 child) Keep moving those goal posts for whatever bewildering reason you have. The situation would only be pulling up the ladder if their parents had inherited the house themselves. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 3 months ago (1 child) The situation? Are you talking of your house or the meme? The meme is 100% about ladder pulling. You did not get the ladder pulled from under you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I don’t have a house, and the meme is not ladder pulling unless there’s more information about the parents in that situation. Read this: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/pull_the_ladder_up_behind_oneself permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) (idiomatic) To prevent others from attaining or benefiting from the same advantages, opportunities, or rights as oneself. Bro permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Sorry, I thought reading it once would help; maybe try reading it a few more times. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 months ago permalink fedilink source parent [–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago People buy houses all the time they can't afford. Hidden costs, thinking taxes and insurance won't shoot up, depending on the size might cost and arm and a leg to heat/cool. There's even a term called "house poor" when you buy a house but don't have the money to furnish it so you just have big empty rooms. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] wabasso@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 months ago (1 child) Can you take out debt against it to pay for those things? If you’re net negative while it’s in your possession then the math should work out if you can extract some of its future sale price against its current cost. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] night_petal@piefed.social 4 points 3 months ago I am currently looking at options like this, yeah. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] night_petal@piefed.social 4 points 3 months ago I am currently looking at options like this, yeah. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (2 children) Sounds like it's a problem with inheritance. Not owning a home. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] night_petal@piefed.social 11 points 3 months ago (1 child) Which is relevant to the meme that was posted. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 months ago (1 child) You said the house was ruining you but that's not true. What's ruining you is the condition of the contract you accepted in order to obtain said house. The meme is about selfish parents pulling the ladder up. Not conditions set on an individual that is subject to them alone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] night_petal@piefed.social 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I never stated that the house is ruining me. I said: I inherited a house, and it is ruining me permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -3 points 3 months ago (1 child) The meme is about pulling up the ladder behind them. You got a ladder installed and they bolted it to your house. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago* (1 child) Keep moving those goal posts for whatever bewildering reason you have. The situation would only be pulling up the ladder if their parents had inherited the house themselves. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 3 months ago (1 child) The situation? Are you talking of your house or the meme? The meme is 100% about ladder pulling. You did not get the ladder pulled from under you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I don’t have a house, and the meme is not ladder pulling unless there’s more information about the parents in that situation. Read this: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/pull_the_ladder_up_behind_oneself permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) (idiomatic) To prevent others from attaining or benefiting from the same advantages, opportunities, or rights as oneself. Bro permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Sorry, I thought reading it once would help; maybe try reading it a few more times. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 months ago permalink fedilink source parent [–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago People buy houses all the time they can't afford. Hidden costs, thinking taxes and insurance won't shoot up, depending on the size might cost and arm and a leg to heat/cool. There's even a term called "house poor" when you buy a house but don't have the money to furnish it so you just have big empty rooms. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] night_petal@piefed.social 11 points 3 months ago (1 child) Which is relevant to the meme that was posted. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 months ago (1 child) You said the house was ruining you but that's not true. What's ruining you is the condition of the contract you accepted in order to obtain said house. The meme is about selfish parents pulling the ladder up. Not conditions set on an individual that is subject to them alone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] night_petal@piefed.social 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I never stated that the house is ruining me. I said: I inherited a house, and it is ruining me permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -3 points 3 months ago (1 child) The meme is about pulling up the ladder behind them. You got a ladder installed and they bolted it to your house. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago* (1 child) Keep moving those goal posts for whatever bewildering reason you have. The situation would only be pulling up the ladder if their parents had inherited the house themselves. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 3 months ago (1 child) The situation? Are you talking of your house or the meme? The meme is 100% about ladder pulling. You did not get the ladder pulled from under you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I don’t have a house, and the meme is not ladder pulling unless there’s more information about the parents in that situation. Read this: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/pull_the_ladder_up_behind_oneself permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) (idiomatic) To prevent others from attaining or benefiting from the same advantages, opportunities, or rights as oneself. Bro permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Sorry, I thought reading it once would help; maybe try reading it a few more times. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 months ago permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 months ago (1 child) You said the house was ruining you but that's not true. What's ruining you is the condition of the contract you accepted in order to obtain said house. The meme is about selfish parents pulling the ladder up. Not conditions set on an individual that is subject to them alone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] night_petal@piefed.social 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I never stated that the house is ruining me. I said: I inherited a house, and it is ruining me permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -3 points 3 months ago (1 child) The meme is about pulling up the ladder behind them. You got a ladder installed and they bolted it to your house. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago* (1 child) Keep moving those goal posts for whatever bewildering reason you have. The situation would only be pulling up the ladder if their parents had inherited the house themselves. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 3 months ago (1 child) The situation? Are you talking of your house or the meme? The meme is 100% about ladder pulling. You did not get the ladder pulled from under you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I don’t have a house, and the meme is not ladder pulling unless there’s more information about the parents in that situation. Read this: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/pull_the_ladder_up_behind_oneself permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) (idiomatic) To prevent others from attaining or benefiting from the same advantages, opportunities, or rights as oneself. Bro permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Sorry, I thought reading it once would help; maybe try reading it a few more times. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 months ago permalink fedilink source parent
[–] night_petal@piefed.social 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I never stated that the house is ruining me. I said: I inherited a house, and it is ruining me permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -3 points 3 months ago (1 child) The meme is about pulling up the ladder behind them. You got a ladder installed and they bolted it to your house. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago* (1 child) Keep moving those goal posts for whatever bewildering reason you have. The situation would only be pulling up the ladder if their parents had inherited the house themselves. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 3 months ago (1 child) The situation? Are you talking of your house or the meme? The meme is 100% about ladder pulling. You did not get the ladder pulled from under you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I don’t have a house, and the meme is not ladder pulling unless there’s more information about the parents in that situation. Read this: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/pull_the_ladder_up_behind_oneself permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) (idiomatic) To prevent others from attaining or benefiting from the same advantages, opportunities, or rights as oneself. Bro permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Sorry, I thought reading it once would help; maybe try reading it a few more times. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 months ago permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -3 points 3 months ago (1 child) The meme is about pulling up the ladder behind them. You got a ladder installed and they bolted it to your house. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago* (1 child) Keep moving those goal posts for whatever bewildering reason you have. The situation would only be pulling up the ladder if their parents had inherited the house themselves. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 3 months ago (1 child) The situation? Are you talking of your house or the meme? The meme is 100% about ladder pulling. You did not get the ladder pulled from under you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I don’t have a house, and the meme is not ladder pulling unless there’s more information about the parents in that situation. Read this: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/pull_the_ladder_up_behind_oneself permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) (idiomatic) To prevent others from attaining or benefiting from the same advantages, opportunities, or rights as oneself. Bro permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Sorry, I thought reading it once would help; maybe try reading it a few more times. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 months ago permalink fedilink source parent
[–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago* (1 child) Keep moving those goal posts for whatever bewildering reason you have. The situation would only be pulling up the ladder if their parents had inherited the house themselves. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 3 months ago (1 child) The situation? Are you talking of your house or the meme? The meme is 100% about ladder pulling. You did not get the ladder pulled from under you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I don’t have a house, and the meme is not ladder pulling unless there’s more information about the parents in that situation. Read this: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/pull_the_ladder_up_behind_oneself permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) (idiomatic) To prevent others from attaining or benefiting from the same advantages, opportunities, or rights as oneself. Bro permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Sorry, I thought reading it once would help; maybe try reading it a few more times. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 months ago permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 3 months ago (1 child) The situation? Are you talking of your house or the meme? The meme is 100% about ladder pulling. You did not get the ladder pulled from under you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I don’t have a house, and the meme is not ladder pulling unless there’s more information about the parents in that situation. Read this: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/pull_the_ladder_up_behind_oneself permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) (idiomatic) To prevent others from attaining or benefiting from the same advantages, opportunities, or rights as oneself. Bro permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Sorry, I thought reading it once would help; maybe try reading it a few more times. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 months ago permalink fedilink source parent
[–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (1 child) I don’t have a house, and the meme is not ladder pulling unless there’s more information about the parents in that situation. Read this: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/pull_the_ladder_up_behind_oneself permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) (idiomatic) To prevent others from attaining or benefiting from the same advantages, opportunities, or rights as oneself. Bro permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Sorry, I thought reading it once would help; maybe try reading it a few more times. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 months ago permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (1 child) (idiomatic) To prevent others from attaining or benefiting from the same advantages, opportunities, or rights as oneself. Bro permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Sorry, I thought reading it once would help; maybe try reading it a few more times. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 months ago permalink fedilink source parent
[–] NiHaDuncan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 child) Sorry, I thought reading it once would help; maybe try reading it a few more times. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 months ago permalink fedilink source parent
[–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago People buy houses all the time they can't afford. Hidden costs, thinking taxes and insurance won't shoot up, depending on the size might cost and arm and a leg to heat/cool. There's even a term called "house poor" when you buy a house but don't have the money to furnish it so you just have big empty rooms. permalink fedilink source parent
