▲ 273 ▼ Anon wonders what went wrong (sh.itjust.works) submitted 4 months ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works [M] to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works 37 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 27 points 4 months ago (2 children) There are mental effects at play, too. Men can get too anxious or, as I find more probable in anon's case, too used to getting a lot of different visual stimulation permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 11 points 4 months ago Not even just visual stimuli. It can be visual, sound, a vagina not gripping as hard as his hand, the fact that he always uses the exact same coconut scented nivea lotion vs finding out what actual girl sweat smells like, or even the proprioceptive difference between getting off leaning back in a computer chair supported semi-fowlers position vs actually prone on top of a partner–there are many more sensory inputs at play than one might think. permalink fedilink source parent [–] BreakerSwitch@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago I'm interpreting your name as relevant permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 11 points 4 months ago Not even just visual stimuli. It can be visual, sound, a vagina not gripping as hard as his hand, the fact that he always uses the exact same coconut scented nivea lotion vs finding out what actual girl sweat smells like, or even the proprioceptive difference between getting off leaning back in a computer chair supported semi-fowlers position vs actually prone on top of a partner–there are many more sensory inputs at play than one might think. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] BreakerSwitch@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago I'm interpreting your name as relevant permalink fedilink source parent
