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Your grocery store is a bewildering sea of overly processed food. Here’s why and what to do (edition.cnn.com)
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[–] 1 point 8 months ago (1 child)

Ok, I get it. I though we're trying to discuss a greater point but you're just hung up on that anonymous lady I was mean to. You're right, I shouldn't have single her out like that and use her as an example. I'm sure she's a great person, everyone actually loves her cooking and her inability to make proper cookies doesn't diminish her value as a human being in any way. In the future I will be more careful about mentioning random people in my comments. I was trying to make a point about quality of food and ability to cook in US which I believe is backed by lots of better data than a single lady and her cookies.

Cookie lady, if you're reading this: I'm sorry. It's not your fault you don't know how to make cookies and shouldn't have judged you like this. If you ever want to learn how to bake let me know and we will arrange some lessons.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (1 child)

    Yeah, there's that scorn again that I was talking about. Your derision and scorn towards those that are less able than you demonstrate a lack of empathy and an absence of sympathy. Your "lots of data" is just your prejudices, you're making sweeping generalizations, not based on knowledge or understanding, but largely based on your preconceived ignorant opinions.

    That lady isn't perfect, but as we can see, neither are you. Nor am I obviously. Cut people some slack, grow some empathy.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago* (1 child)

    I'm agreeing with you while at the same time laughing at the idea of defending some random lady mentioned in a comment. Yes, I judged her cookie making abilities without knowing her full background. I also don't think a random comment on lemmy she's not aware of hurt her feelings.

    Wait, are you that lady? That would explain a lot. Maybe there's some trauma behind it. Sorry, I just didn't think you would see it. I will be more careful int he future, promise.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    That's scorn + derision.

    The argument was never about the lady, the lady her plight is a story telling device to make this abstract problem more relatable, to make the story more compelling and to get empathy + sympathy from the audience. The same way I tried to use my grandmother's experience as a story telling device to make you more empathic with people who are differently able than you. These kinds of people exist in every country, you may even know some without knowing it because it's not exactly written on our faces what our cognitive capabilities are. They deserve our sympathy and help if they want it, but to be scornful towards them is bad imo. I really don't like victim blaming.

    What I'm trying to say is: Keep an open mind, don't let your prejudices determine your opinions about people, grow some empathy and try to be sympathetic with people's situations. Scorn is never the right answer.

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