My wife had a very difficult childhood. She was raped by a cousin at 11. Her father was physically and emotionally abusive and her mother was drunk and abusive. She ran away and lived on the street and did what she had to do to survive. I knew all of that going in. We had a varied and very active sex life and had two great kids. We had a couple of threesomes with other women that were great for everyone involved. Her past caught up with her about 10 years ago and became sexual. I suggested counseling but she doesn't care about sex so she isn't interested. We talked about it a lot and she finally said, "I am asexual but I believe that I have made it very clear that I don't expect you to be." I asked if she wanted me to be open about it with her and she said, "No. I don't want to know and I don't want it to get back to me." We live in a small town and she doesn't want people talking.
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