▲ 503 ▼ Anon checks up on a childhood friend (sh.itjust.works) submitted 10 months ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works [M] to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works 85 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] ryedaft@sh.itjust.works 2 points 10 months ago (2 children) 200 years ago people also had kids quite late. And we live so much longer than even 40 years ago. Life is so much better and safer now. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Eq0@literature.cafe 3 points 10 months ago But the nuclear family is much younger, so today’s kids rely much more heavily and directly on their parents with respect to kids 200 years ago. The “village” build around multigenerational housing has disappeared, making the age of parents a much bigger factor than earlier on permalink fedilink source parent [–] PlasticLove@lemmy.today 1 point 9 months ago* (1 child) 200 years ago people were having kids at 15-16 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] RBWells@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago And at 40 and 45, since there wasn't birth control. I was honestly surprised when I looked at a genealogy site, so many of my ancestresses got married at 28-30, I guess reading Little House on the Prairie when I was a kid made me think all those women of old times married young but nope, that did not seem to be the case. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Eq0@literature.cafe 3 points 10 months ago But the nuclear family is much younger, so today’s kids rely much more heavily and directly on their parents with respect to kids 200 years ago. The “village” build around multigenerational housing has disappeared, making the age of parents a much bigger factor than earlier on permalink fedilink source parent
[–] PlasticLove@lemmy.today 1 point 9 months ago* (1 child) 200 years ago people were having kids at 15-16 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] RBWells@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago And at 40 and 45, since there wasn't birth control. I was honestly surprised when I looked at a genealogy site, so many of my ancestresses got married at 28-30, I guess reading Little House on the Prairie when I was a kid made me think all those women of old times married young but nope, that did not seem to be the case. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago And at 40 and 45, since there wasn't birth control. I was honestly surprised when I looked at a genealogy site, so many of my ancestresses got married at 28-30, I guess reading Little House on the Prairie when I was a kid made me think all those women of old times married young but nope, that did not seem to be the case. permalink fedilink source parent