It was to you. Other people aren't you. What is obvious to you, isn't obvious to other people.
This is where you are failing to understand the issue. Other people are not you. They don't think like you do. They don't reason like you do. They are entirely different than you.
Be angry about it all you want. It won't change the facts that other people's votes, or non votes, count as much as yours and there isn't a thing you can do about it. But hey, it probably makes you feel like you're special, right?
Everything was on the table and extremely obvious. If getting centrists on the right side of history is more dependent on making them feel good and special than on getting them to just make the obviously right choices then everything is already fucked and they’re just going to keep moving the goalposts as they see what they can get away with. Everyone who “just wants change” will never vote far left, only far right, and that’s pretty fucking telling.