▲ -2 ▼ How much of a deal breaker would be a high body count for you? (lemmynsfw.com) submitted 1 year ago by freeusething@lemmynsfw.com to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world 51 comments fedilink hide all child comments Assume that there’s no STIs involved. How comfortable would you be with a partner with numbers in the double digits? Triple digits? When would be the appropriate time to share that kind of information?
[+] razorcandy@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] AmidFuror@fedia.io 3 points 1 year ago It's situational, but a very high number of past partners could correlate with unethical behavior in the past and/or some issues making healthy connections with others. It would be worthy of a discussion, but probably more broadly about past experiences and relationships rather than "body count." You could also say you don't care how much money your partner has, but if they're a billionaire you might want to know more about how they got there. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] AmidFuror@fedia.io 3 points 1 year ago It's situational, but a very high number of past partners could correlate with unethical behavior in the past and/or some issues making healthy connections with others. It would be worthy of a discussion, but probably more broadly about past experiences and relationships rather than "body count." You could also say you don't care how much money your partner has, but if they're a billionaire you might want to know more about how they got there. permalink fedilink source parent