Cowgirl is hard on my knees and I get uncomfortable about the view as belly is my insecurity, also unless the guy is like 20 years old or on Viagra they don't stay super hard just because I want them to, they have the normal variation, so then I worry about that too, I don't want to accidentally injure them.

So I guess that would be my least favorite. There are some others that are uncomfortable but make me feel subby, the cowgirl is like "be in charge" on top of the inherent issues of needing the guy to be so hard.

But when all stars align - if the guy is strong and guiding me with his hands and doesn't see it as me in charge, and really is that hard and really doesn't accept my body insecurities or even see what I do, it can be very good, especially with guys who are a little too long for deeper positions.