If 60% of the world however would be using a Nokia minäPuhelin you would see the same, if not worse, privacy-invasive regulation and controversy popping off every other week.
Right... in fact if you look deep down within a TSMC chip you can see an ASML fueled IP on how to spy on people. /s
I think you are muddying the water with unrelated (albeit legitimates) problems (e.g. court order or political proposal vs actual regulation on all companies, EU ones included) and total speculation on what you imagine would happen if the world was different.
The Brussels effect make the world better even if the EU was not even well intentioned in the first place or didn't actually build anything.