Yeah but if someone thinks a different god than mine made the universe then they deserve to die so I can prove it was actually my god. Religious people for the last 50,000+ years

That's the difference. Religion has caused more pain and suffering than anything else ever, period, and I'm tired of pretending it hasn't. More than the Holocaust, more than any non religious war, more than any government. Humanity simply can't survive unless we leave religion behind.