Do you cave and use both hands? Do you take the chance and try to use them one-handed when more actively using them? Or do you ultimately submit and get an accessory to kinda help, at least with keeping a hold of them?
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a few other answers:just use both hands, get an accessory, and/or balance on pinky and develop the toughest pinky imaginable
spoiler bonus:
find some smol phone you like and savor it for as long as it works
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An accessory is pretty good, some of them can flatten out flush with the phone so that you can still use stands / wireless charging. Out of those, the cloth ones are more comfortable but the plastic/metal one felt more secure imo
I found that I was getting pain in my hands/wrist with my most recent phone because of how big and heavy it's gotten. Especially with the case