▲ 966 ▼ It's a healthy and sustainable routine (startrek.website) submitted 2 years ago by The_Picard_Maneuver@startrek.website [M] to c/memes@lemmy.world 65 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] kameecoding@programming.dev 23 points 2 years ago (1 child) Im not a social person I dont actually get why people love to stay home all week. story checks out. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Bondrewd@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (2 children) Abso fucking lutely. If you are not social, that means you are disincentivized to practice social interaction. That means you have a hard time socializing to not feel lonely when you do feel so. I have always felt lonely as hell. And since I was not fucking stepping out to keep relationships alive and practice human interaction, I dug myself deeper into this hole. Now I cant even fucking make friends. I would love to stay home and chill out. But I know Im wasting away in this virgin hell every single day. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] kameecoding@programming.dev 4 points 2 years ago I mean I am not social either, but I wouldn't go back to the office just because I lack social interaction I would rather take up some hobbies that take me among people. Also a huge benefit for me is that the time I would spend commuting I spend walking my dog instead. not to mention I get up when I get up, absolute freedom. the downside is lack of separation between work and home since I can technically work anytime I want. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Smoogs@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago There are many ways to socialize beyond work. I have a few work friends but I have many more friends with deeper connections whom I chose to stay in touch with outside of work. Work friends will always have an essence of “if I didn’t have to interact with you every day I probably wouldn’t seek you out on my own” and many of them are very aware of it. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Bondrewd@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (2 children) Abso fucking lutely. If you are not social, that means you are disincentivized to practice social interaction. That means you have a hard time socializing to not feel lonely when you do feel so. I have always felt lonely as hell. And since I was not fucking stepping out to keep relationships alive and practice human interaction, I dug myself deeper into this hole. Now I cant even fucking make friends. I would love to stay home and chill out. But I know Im wasting away in this virgin hell every single day. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] kameecoding@programming.dev 4 points 2 years ago I mean I am not social either, but I wouldn't go back to the office just because I lack social interaction I would rather take up some hobbies that take me among people. Also a huge benefit for me is that the time I would spend commuting I spend walking my dog instead. not to mention I get up when I get up, absolute freedom. the downside is lack of separation between work and home since I can technically work anytime I want. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Smoogs@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago There are many ways to socialize beyond work. I have a few work friends but I have many more friends with deeper connections whom I chose to stay in touch with outside of work. Work friends will always have an essence of “if I didn’t have to interact with you every day I probably wouldn’t seek you out on my own” and many of them are very aware of it. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] kameecoding@programming.dev 4 points 2 years ago I mean I am not social either, but I wouldn't go back to the office just because I lack social interaction I would rather take up some hobbies that take me among people. Also a huge benefit for me is that the time I would spend commuting I spend walking my dog instead. not to mention I get up when I get up, absolute freedom. the downside is lack of separation between work and home since I can technically work anytime I want. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Smoogs@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago There are many ways to socialize beyond work. I have a few work friends but I have many more friends with deeper connections whom I chose to stay in touch with outside of work. Work friends will always have an essence of “if I didn’t have to interact with you every day I probably wouldn’t seek you out on my own” and many of them are very aware of it. permalink fedilink source parent