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[–] 12 points 2 years ago (1 child)

Clearly this works for other people, and that is cool! Not for me though :(

My brain: "If it works out" then I won't have to worry about it, but while there's a chance it doesn't I still need to prepare myself for the worst scenario.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago

    I can relate to this, but how are you actually preparing yourself?

    Are you planning your response to the problem, considering how to improve the outcome for next time, learning from any mistakes you or others may have made to end up there?

    Or are you just dwelling on the possible negative outcome that hasn't happened yet, so you can say 'Told you so' to yourself or anyone who will listen after the fact?

    Like I said, I can relate to this, but I'm slowly trying to turn my pessimism into something productive.

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