▲ 49 ▼ I cheated. Wife forgave me. How to reearn trust? (sopuli.xyz) submitted 1 year ago by comeback@sopuli.xyz to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world 46 comments fedilink hide all child comments I was a piece of shit, I know.
[–] victorz@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago (1 child) I never cheated nor have I been cheated on, but this makes so much sense regardless. Well-worded af. Also I'm sorry the thing happened to you. ❤️ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 year ago* (2 children) Thank you, I appreciate that. I wrote something a little while back on here, in many ways related to this, that I still take to heart. Hope anyone reading this and relating can take something from it, so I think it's worth sharing again. Genuine sorrow hurts, but my god if it isn't a fascinating and powerful state. It's 100% transformative, in a good way, if you allow it to be. Sorrow and the journey back, imo, is a vital trial in human development, all the more interesting because it's truly universal. The risk is so hardening yourself against pain that it's detrimental, the prize is a deeper capacity for empathy. To love, and to lose, and to find your way back to love again - it doesn't feel this way in the slough of despond, but on the other end and with some time it's a beautiful thing. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] steeznson@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago Good luck on your journey. Real life is messy and everyone has their own unique challenges navigating it. Sounds like you are a very mature individual. permalink fedilink source parent [–] victorz@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago Very profound. Thanks for sharing it. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 year ago* (2 children) Thank you, I appreciate that. I wrote something a little while back on here, in many ways related to this, that I still take to heart. Hope anyone reading this and relating can take something from it, so I think it's worth sharing again. Genuine sorrow hurts, but my god if it isn't a fascinating and powerful state. It's 100% transformative, in a good way, if you allow it to be. Sorrow and the journey back, imo, is a vital trial in human development, all the more interesting because it's truly universal. The risk is so hardening yourself against pain that it's detrimental, the prize is a deeper capacity for empathy. To love, and to lose, and to find your way back to love again - it doesn't feel this way in the slough of despond, but on the other end and with some time it's a beautiful thing. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] steeznson@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago Good luck on your journey. Real life is messy and everyone has their own unique challenges navigating it. Sounds like you are a very mature individual. permalink fedilink source parent [–] victorz@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago Very profound. Thanks for sharing it. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago Good luck on your journey. Real life is messy and everyone has their own unique challenges navigating it. Sounds like you are a very mature individual. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] victorz@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago Very profound. Thanks for sharing it. permalink fedilink source parent