Recent romantic partners always want to shower together and I couldn’t imagine anything more irritating. How do people get themselves properly clean while someone else is there fondling you? Sure, they can help scrub your back but maybe I need some space and privacy to clean all the BITS, you know?

So annoying. But it keeps the “passion alive” so fine, I’ll do it.

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[–] 1 point 3 years ago (1 child)

As a bald guy, my showers are pretty darn fast. Abrasive scrub with my fancy soap all over within 5 minutes on the usual, add 5 minutes about once or twice a week for shaving. When I shower with someone else they usually have a lot more involved with their shower and I'm out before they really get started.

I mean, I'm definitely not opposed to showering with a significant other, but I usually let them know that it's not going to be what they think it will be lol

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  • [–] 1 point 3 years ago (1 child)

    There's also intent to think about. Are we getting clean at the same time, or is it romantic? I'm out in 5 minutes also, if we're getting clean. But if you want romance make sure I know and I can slow down and enjoy the time too.

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