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[–] 89 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Interesting thing about that is that, while it's still common practice, a lot of more left-leaning women did away with taking their husband's name years ago

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  • [–] 61 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Yeah my wife and I just kept our name. Its funny because over the years we sorta wish we would have done the traditional thing as it would make a variety of things easier but now apparently its becoming a brilliant move.

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  • [–] 24 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    My wife did the same, but for unofficial stuff, she uses my last name as hers.

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  • [–] 20 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    yeah its more problematic for official stuff really. like being in the hospital. Its not much but like you tend to have to make it more clear your the spouse.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    We got married ten years ago and she didn't take my name. I'm very much cool with it, and it's got easier over the years.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    yeah it was a slow burn annoyance and she gets annoyed by it more than I but it took like 20 odd years to be like. This is sorta annoying. EDITED - hey so im rethinking and it started at about the 10 year mark and built up over time but as I said its little things. My wife has a lot of medical issues though so we might have more nuisance around it than the typical couple.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    My wife didn’t take my last name and I’m so glad.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    My mom never took my dad's so I grew up with that being the norm, so I took it step further and my partner and I are not even married despite being together 11 years.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Yeah my partner and I didn't get married until 8 years deep, and that's going steady. We were fucking on and off for years before. We did it to appease our family. Never had any kids thank the hole in the ozone.

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