▲ 239 ▼ No Hello (nohello.net) submitted 2 years ago by sag@lemm.ee [M] to c/internetisbeautiful@lemm.ee 61 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[+] StrongHorseWeakNeigh@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago (2 children) I don't really like seeing caring about others or folks feeling down as a 'problem'. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 6 points 2 years ago I don't think caring about other people is the problem. I think this particular manifestation is of dubious value, and in fact annoys enough people that someone made a website asking you to stop doing it. Furthermore, if "Hey man what's up? Do you remember if there's lunch provided at this meeting?" is going to push them over the edge, then they're so close to a breaking point already that anything is going to do it. permalink fedilink source parent [+] StrongHorseWeakNeigh@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (2 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think its perfectly reasonable to make no assumptions about someone's wellbeing (you are checking the status of their wellbeing, not assuming that they are unwell). permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 1 point 2 years ago Yes, exactly. Thank you for pointing this out! permalink fedilink source parent [–] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago wow, okay... permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago (2 children) I don't really like seeing caring about others or folks feeling down as a 'problem'. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 6 points 2 years ago I don't think caring about other people is the problem. I think this particular manifestation is of dubious value, and in fact annoys enough people that someone made a website asking you to stop doing it. Furthermore, if "Hey man what's up? Do you remember if there's lunch provided at this meeting?" is going to push them over the edge, then they're so close to a breaking point already that anything is going to do it. permalink fedilink source parent [+] StrongHorseWeakNeigh@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (2 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think its perfectly reasonable to make no assumptions about someone's wellbeing (you are checking the status of their wellbeing, not assuming that they are unwell). permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 1 point 2 years ago Yes, exactly. Thank you for pointing this out! permalink fedilink source parent [–] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago wow, okay... permalink fedilink source parent
[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 6 points 2 years ago I don't think caring about other people is the problem. I think this particular manifestation is of dubious value, and in fact annoys enough people that someone made a website asking you to stop doing it. Furthermore, if "Hey man what's up? Do you remember if there's lunch provided at this meeting?" is going to push them over the edge, then they're so close to a breaking point already that anything is going to do it. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] StrongHorseWeakNeigh@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (2 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think its perfectly reasonable to make no assumptions about someone's wellbeing (you are checking the status of their wellbeing, not assuming that they are unwell). permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 1 point 2 years ago Yes, exactly. Thank you for pointing this out! permalink fedilink source parent [–] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago wow, okay... permalink fedilink source parent
[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think its perfectly reasonable to make no assumptions about someone's wellbeing (you are checking the status of their wellbeing, not assuming that they are unwell). permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 1 point 2 years ago Yes, exactly. Thank you for pointing this out! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 1 point 2 years ago Yes, exactly. Thank you for pointing this out! permalink fedilink source parent