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submitted 1 day ago by Grail@multiverse.soulism.net to c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 day ago (8 children)

oh no not the tik - tok >o<

this whole mistress thing always feels so very adult.

here especially it feels so incredibly rough and aggressive and loud and scary and uncomfy... oh well, to each their own.

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[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net [S] 17 points 1 day ago (7 children)

Hehe, I like to play rough with My things... with consent and appropriate aftercare, of course. I actually discovered My species identity through blood roleplay.

I think this comic is designed to play the trope for laughs and only be appealing to the gooniest of thralls. If you want to see something that I've seen cause at least one awakening, well... Castlevania has this amazing scene that really explains the appeal of playing rough. Content warnings on this video should hopefully be quite obvious.

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[–] tutter@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 8 hours ago* (2 children)

yo to each their own if consent is established. But isn't this just a tid bit over 'playing rough'? She beats the everliving SHIT out of him, straight fight club 'i wanted to destroy a beautiful thing' style

Idk I'm probs just vanilla but my idea of playing rough Is at maximum a playful slap here n there, else it's just the energy that's wild, throwing each other around if changing positions and such

What you linked seems to me like sexually themed violence. Which again, totally cool if under consent, just the framing that confuses me a bit lol

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